POWER OF PAIN
(A STRONG MOTIVATIONAL JERK TOWARDS THE LIFE GOAL
Happiness, Satisfaction, Joy are the emotional feelings, every human being aspires to get and through smile, laughing, dancing etc. those feelings are expressed. Feel of positivity and communication of those vibes, both are exciting. Those are both moral and mental boosters. No one wants to come out of the lap of those feelings or seek to change, just love to get cocooned with seal and enjoy the happiness.
Pain, sadness, sorrows etc. push the individuals to extend their boundaries to come out of such feelings and change their way. Particularly when pain is much more than tolerance capacity, individual has to accept the change.
According to Robbin, Pleasure and Pain both are great motivator, one stimulates the sensory feeling of happiness and other is the strong impulsive sensation of pain. Yes as we say success follows success, pleasure always increases the level of confidence and pushes to take up the challenges.
1. But in pain an individual gets hurt, wants to forget everything and does not want to repeat to be hurt. It changes its behaviors and actions. Like when a kid goes to touch the fire and touches it, it never goes on the same way. It immediately changes its way and try to reach the destination by using different methods. Instead of several warnings of teachers, parents and associates whatever was not possible, it became possible because of feel of pain.
2. Emotional Hurt is much more piercing and bigger change maker. Stanford was established by his parents after his death in Harvard to establish a Legacy Monument on the name of Stanford. When the Chancellor of Harvard denied to establish a monument in his name in Harvard Campus.
3. The hardest part is to overcome the initial part, few hours, few days and after that search for the solutions and push yourself to that extent to get a solution. Not taking action is the irresponsibility and take control of the situation and your life, your mind. …….
4. We have read about all the successful people starting from Galilio, Einstein, Nelson Mandella, Mother Teresa etc. those who have crossed through catastrophic problems in their life. The realization from those pain have made them what they have lived in this world.
To come out of the pain, the best practice is to keep your faith with somebody, some thing or somewhere which takes you through the journey of meditation and reach at the picks of spiritualism. Where you will be able to connect yourself with Super Being and get the calmness in life, from where, everything is beautiful and can choose the right path to follow and ………..