Happiness, Satisfaction, Joy  are the emotional feelings, every human being aspires to get and through smile, laughing, dancing etc. those feelings are expressed. Feel of positivity and communication of those vibes, both are exciting.  Those are both moral and mental boosters. No one wants to come out of the lap of those feelings or seek to change, just love to get cocooned with seal and enjoy the happiness. 


Pain, sadness, sorrows etc. push the individuals to extend their boundaries to come out of such feelings and change their way. Particularly when pain is much more than  tolerance capacity, individual has to accept the change. 


According to Robbin, Pleasure and Pain both are great motivator, one stimulates the sensory feeling of happiness and other is the strong impulsive sensation of pain. Yes as we say success follows success, pleasure always increases the level of confidence and pushes to take up the challenges. 


1.    But in pain an individual gets hurt, wants to forget everything and does not want to repeat to be hurt. It changes its behaviors and actions. Like when a kid goes to touch the fire and touches it, it never goes on the same way. It immediately changes its way and try to reach the destination by using different methods. Instead of several warnings of teachers, parents and associates whatever was not possible, it became possible because of feel of pain.


2.    Emotional Hurt is much more piercing and bigger change maker. Stanford was established by his parents after his death in Harvard to establish a Legacy Monument on the name of Stanford. When the Chancellor of Harvard denied to establish a monument in his name in Harvard Campus.


3.    The hardest part is to overcome the initial part, few hours, few days and after that search for the solutions and push yourself to that extent to get a solution. Not taking action is the irresponsibility and take control of the situation and your life, your mind. …….


4.    We have read about all the successful people starting from Galilio, Einstein, Nelson Mandella, Mother Teresa etc. those who have crossed through catastrophic problems in their life. The realization from those pain have made them what they have lived in this world. 


To come out of the pain, the best practice is to keep your faith with somebody, some thing or somewhere which takes you through the journey of meditation and reach at the picks of spiritualism. Where you will be able to connect yourself with Super Being and get the calmness in life, from where, everything is beautiful and can choose the right  path to follow and ………..



Published On: June 9, 2021485 wordsCategories: Uncategorized8 Comments
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  1. Dr. Benu Gopal Mohapatra June 9, 2021 at 8:14 am - Reply

    Another good article from the author considering the practical approach of life. True citations making the article more interesting to bear the pain of joy. I myself have learnt from author how one has to be positive minded to come out from all the odds and difficulties and face the situation all the time for which I am very much thankful to respected madam. It's rightly advised to overcome the pain "through journey of meditation and reach at the picks of spiritualism". Thank you very much

    Benu Mohapatra

  2. Dilip Kumar Samantasinghar June 9, 2021 at 10:29 am - Reply

    The concept of the Article at its grass-root level defines, "Pain is the first & foremost resource of Gain". Moreover, the Title of the Article denotes much more exclusiveness than that of others. It's not just matter of knowledge or skill rather, the apex mixture of heat & brain that the narrator is bestowed with.

    O/o Dean & O/o DyCoE
    School of Civil Engineering
    KIIT University, Bhubaneswar

  3. Dilip Kumar Samantasinghar June 9, 2021 at 10:31 am - Reply

    Excellent and appreciated comment Sir.

  4. Rajiv singh June 9, 2021 at 5:24 pm - Reply

    Ye, it's great to read with pain in heart, following the hope to find the truthness with essence of spirituality ,which will blossom with the flower of wisdom ,a great article to boost the hope with pain, I love it,even the ground is ploughed hard to sow the seed of greenary ,from where food for hunger ,giving life.

  5. Dr Shyam Sundar Behura June 10, 2021 at 3:07 am - Reply

    In life we need pain to provide a contrast for pleasure and on the other hand as outlined by many authors Pain promotes pleasure and happiness and keeps us connected to the world around us. As rightly mentioned by Prof. Samanta, Pain is a strong motivational jerk towards life’s goal which really pushes you to search for solutions to overcome it and move ahead to attain happiness and success. Moreover, we will all agree to the author’s testimony towards the end that you need someone or something who will cruise you through the time of pain & important role of spiritualism in this context cannot be denied.

  6. Unknown June 10, 2021 at 6:13 am - Reply

    Nicely narrated by the author the outcome of pain, sorrow and anguish. The story of Stanford is also a good illustration of the above said thing. Author also told it is not only to keep calm during the pain, it is also necessary to come out of it. Dr.Achyuta Samant, founder of KIIT and KISS is a great example in state of Odisha and the success story of KIIT and KISS everybody knows in India and abroad. A great clap to the author to showcase the other side of pain…

  7. Dr Gaganendu Dash June 11, 2021 at 2:13 pm - Reply

    Life has its upside and downs. Hard or painful time help us to rethink our views on the world. It help to re- center ourselves and teach us how to live in life.
    It made us more thankful, we have more empathy and we realize what really matters. It may not be a pleasant experience to go through painful time but it is comforting to know we will survive it. Author rightly said that, it made us more stronger and more successful when we find solutions to fight it and coming out of it in life.

  8. Dr Sandeep Poddar June 16, 2021 at 1:21 am - Reply

    No Pain No Gain. God places the heaviest burden on those who can carry its weight.

    Madam I just came to know about Stanford from your writeup. Thankyou madam for excellent article.


Sasmita Samanta

Prof. Sasmita Samanta is an accomplished academician and administrator with more than two and half decades of experience in strategizing excellence in professional and technical education. Currently she wears the mantle of Professor of Management and Vice-Chancellor of KIIT Deemed to be University.

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